Monthly Archives: January 2013


In music, a serenade is a musical composition, and/or performance, in someone’s honor. Serenades are typically calm, light music. The word Serenade is derived from the Italian word sereno, which means calm. Wikipedia
*sings a little tune*   There you go!   I hope that leaves you feeling all calm and suitable honored.   I may not have the sweetest serenade voice but I must say I looked awesome in my outfit.   I absolutely love this new dress from Maitreya.   I really wanted to buy it in every beautiful shade.   But I calmed myself down with a mental serenade and just bought 2.   These dresses are gorgeously done and I plan to get alot of wear out of them.   And now to talk about the SHOES!   Oh happy day GOS has released a new line of shoes and mesh feet.   They are amazing shoes.   The very best part is that the HUD for skin matching is wonderful!   You can go to a website and find your exact skin and presto chango.. perfectly matched feet!   THANK YOU!!!  If only everything were that easy.   I hope you enjoy my look for today.   Cheers!
Warmed Up For The Serenade Wearing….
Hair – >TRUTH< January –  dark browns
Skin – -Belleza- Ava Tan
Eyes – Mayfly – Liquid Light Mesh Eye (Desert Dawn Shadow)
Eyelashes – *REDGRAVE* Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong
Dress – Maitreya Mignon Evening * Seashell
Shoes – [Gos] Boutique – Grace Sandals – Mirror
Necklace – EarthStones Diamond Tennis Necklace – Platinum
Bracelet – EarthStones Diamond Tennis Bracelet – Platinum
Earrings – EarthStones The Diamond Studs – Marquis
Nails – *Sexy Mamas* Manicure – Sculpted Prim Nails
Until I see you again…
Remember that …. “Words make you think a thought.
Music makes you feel a feeling.
A song makes you feel a thought.”
As always.. I’m
Lavindia J. Fox
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Posted by on January 31, 2013 in Fashion, Uncategorized



“Once bitten by a snake, he/she is scared all his/her life at the mere sight of a rope.” ~ Chinese Proverbs


Isn’t that the dang truth?   I’ve never been bitten by a snake but I’m still scared of those mothers.   I think it all started when I was watching the movie Lonesome Dove.   That poor guy who was so afraid of crossing the river.  What happens?  His dang horse steps off into a bed of water moccasins.   He was just demolished.   There is something to be said of knowing when something dangerous is lurking.   But on the other hand and what I mainly take away from the above proverb.   Not every “snake”  is of the dangerous variety.    The innocent snakes shouldn’t have to be punished for those nasty venom filled kind.   And those silly ropes disguising themselves as snakes.. should just be ashamed of themselves .. hanging round scaring poor unsuspecting snake fearing people.    But enough of those profound wonderings… All this snake talk came about because of this great dress.   I love it!   The belt around the hips is snake-skin.  And you can’t go wrong with side boobage.  I’ve heard that a time or three.   I picked this dress up at the FROST event.   I know I know that event is over now.   But it could be available at the store.. and if it’s not… it should be!   I enjoyed putting this look together to share with you.   I hope you enjoy viewing it.


Tried To Appear More Dangerous Wearing….

Hair – >TRUTH< Dee (Mesh) –  black & whites


Eyelashes – *REDGRAVE* Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong

Eyes – Mayfly – Liquid Light Mesh Eye (Desert Dawn Shadow)

Collar – [Tethered] Collar – Nightfall Descent

Necklace – n*l Zombie*Pearls Necklace Black & Snake


Shoes – Yasum*FROST HEEL*

Bracelets – *BLITZED* Legacy Cuffs – black

Watch – *BLITZED* Legacy watch – black

Nails/Rings – +ROZOREGALIA+*Gazellver*Ring&Nail/1(F)

*see side for store slurls*


Until next time…

I’ll be pondering the best way to identify the scary snakes from the safe ones.

Until then…. If it looks like a snake… or acts like a snake…. it’s probably a snake…. but sometimes.. just sometimes… it’s a harmless rope.   Won’t hurt to keep a safe distance just don’t run screaming if you don’t have to.

Keep that tucked away in the wise saying of …

the proverbial…

Lavindia J. Fox

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Posted by on January 24, 2013 in Fashion, Uncategorized


Soft Leather….

“At the touch of leather, I quiver and gasp. He walks around me again, trailing the crop around the middle of my body. On his second circuit, he suddenly flicks the crop, and it hits me underneath my behind … against my sex … The shock runs through me, and it’s the sweetest, strangest, hedonistic feeling … My body convulses at the sweet, stinging bite. My nipples harden and elongate from the assault, and I moan loudly, pulling on my leather cuffs.”  ~ 50 Shades of Grey by E.L. James


I’ve been having one of those lazy weeks again.   Couple days mixed in there of the “I don’t have anything to wear” variety.   But today I settled on this soft leather outfit by Sassy.   I’ve had this outfit for a while and haven’t gotten around to wearing and blogging it.   I love the soft leather look of this outfit.   Makes you feel softly sexy in an edgy not so sweet kind of way.   I think that sums me up nicely.   As far as the above quotes go…. well I blame Mr. Fox for permanently embedding fantasies involving riding crops on my brain.   *moans*


Felt Softly Sexy Wearing…

Hair – [e] Abbey – Rich Browns


Eyes – Mayfly – Liquid Light Mesh Eye (Desert Dawn Shadow)

Eyelashes – *REDGRAVE* Eyelashes -31- ExtraLong

Top – ~Sassy!~ Gramercy leather corset – ivory

Pants – ~Sassy!~ Tribeca leather pants – ivory

Shoes – [Diktator]-CHIC (PYTHON)

Bracelets – UNISEX[MANDALA]OKAKI Bracelet set/Black


Collar – [Tethered] Collar – Nightfall Descent


Nails – *Sexy Mamas* Manicure – Sculpted Prim Nails

Pose Prop – {what next} ‘So Boho’ Dressing Screen


*slides her hands down over the soft supple leather of her pants*

mmmmmmm so nice

Til the next time…

Remember me as your leather loving blogger…

Lavindia J. Fox

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Posted by on January 18, 2013 in Fashion, Uncategorized



“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.”  ~ Anaïs Nin


I remember running across that quote months ago and being like *growl* that’s hot!   Also found this great chained up pose and just couldn’t wait to get inspired for a bondage post.   The inspiration came in the form of these great new cuffs!    Thank you again Collabor88!   Such a great release this month.   I bought more than I should even confess to.   Going to be enjoying getting lots of new outfit ideas to share with you.   I also have another great hangout to get you “posted” on.  *chuckles*  The OutPost is a great new blues/rock club that is friendly to the BDSM crowd or just about any crowd.   “whispers”  they have a dungeon!!!   But you have to be a member of the group to visit it so get yourself added to their group and become an Outpost Outcast with me!   Now get over there and get your groove on.   Don’t forget to tell Molly Larkin and Crazy that Lavindia Fox sent you their way for fox sake.   You won’t be disappointed.    These are some great people and the club atmosphere is great.   Be warned …wandering too close to the water could get you attacked by gators!


Was Prepared For a Good Posting Wearing….

Hair – *Dura-Girl*39(Dark Brown)


Blindfold – !! X-Posure !! Blindfold

Earrings – EarthStones The Diamond Studs – Marquis

Collar – [Tethered] Collar – Nightfall Descent

Cuffs – *BOOM* Bold cuffs TITANIUM

Feet – Slink Ladies Mesh Barefeet (Static) Tiptoes

Tattoo – .:: Delusions ::. Voulez Vous Couchez Avec Moi

Pose – [Captivity Co.] Chains


Outfit – dl:: Owned Slave Outfit


Hopefully I’ll bump into you soon at The Outpost!

I could blame the blindfold.. but honestly.. I like bumping into people!

So until then…

I’ll be your properly bound blogger….

Lavindia J. Fox




With a quick raise of  the fist, he shouted to the depths of the forest, “Onward ho, let’s go.   Lead the way, Mr. Stickypants!” ~ From the show Psychfic



Heeelllooooo Again 🙂   It’s your roving social scene reporter.  I’m thinking previewing both fashion and social hangouts may be my new year venture.   Maybe.. who knows… it’s always possible.   Anyway today I’m giving props to another great hangout.   Stickypantz!!!   Now you may remember me talking so highly of a place called The Chillout Lounge  Sadly they closed their doors but the games and good times could not be stopped!   So a new place was born.   You’ll find most of the same great people at Stickypantz.   Great people.. Awesome games…. Lots of laughs and good times to be had.   Come on down and hang out!   While I was there I learned of another great store.   Yasum has great unique trendy styles.    I absolutely love this store.   I’m thinking the Yasum folder in my inventory will be steadily growing larger.   Visit them you won’t be disappointed.


Enjoyed Having errmm Stickypantz wearing….

Hair – *Dura-Boy*40(Dark Brown)


Outfit – Yasum*MESH*Highwaste Baggies*FEMALE*GRUNGE


Earrings – .:* LOULOU&CO *:. – Earrings :: HESPERIDE :: Black (8 Colors)

Collar – [Tethered] Collar – Nightfall Descent

Tattoos – Vestigium – Dead Ink

Bracelets – *BLITZED* Legacy Cuffs – black

Watch – *BLITZED* Legacy watch – black

Rings/Nails – +ROZOREGALIA+*Gazellver*Ring&Nail/1(F)


Wanna play a game?   muahahahahaha

That’s all I’ve got to say today…. Cya soon!

I’m…. Sticky as Pie… or so my title says…


Lavindia J. Fox


New Year Resolutions….

New  Year’s Resolution: To tolerate fools more gladly, provided this does not  encourage them to take up more of my time. ~ James  Agate


Happy New Year Everyone!    It’s that time of year where we all sit back and think about the year gone by.  If you’re anything like me you’ve had a big mixture of good times and not so good times over the past 12 months.   But its the day when we say “out with the old and in with the new”.   Now usually we start making big plans on how we are going to turn our lives around in the new year right?   Resolutions is the name we give to these mass promises to change something or just do better with something else.   I’ve decided this year to resolutely resolve to NOT make any crazed promises to myself.   If I can eat less sugar…. drink less soda…. find my gym shoes.   Well that’s not resolutions.. it’s just IknowIgottas..    Any way… This post is a tribute to all the things we would like to resolve out of our lives usually 🙂    I hope you enjoy.


Resolved To Eat Less Sweet Stuff Wearing….

Hair – /Wasabi Pills/ Veronica Mesh Hair – Browns Pack


Dress – Maitreya Long Jersey Dress

Shoes – N-core COQUETTE Platform “Dark Brown”



Said NO to Alcohol and Smokes While Visiting…

An awesomely nice place for hanging out and interacting with new people is [The Chamber Society].   I’ve visited a few times already and have yet to be disappointed.   They have lots of rooms and settings for any RP adventure you have in mind.    The lounge environment is themed after the movie Eyes Wide Shut.   Beware if you wear a mask you are giving off the message that you are willing to enjoy some no strings sex.    So.   If you haven’t resolved to give that type thing up… Get those masks out!    You won’t be disappointed .   Hope to see you there sometimes.   The group costs 300L to join but it is worth it.   Always willing to spend a little extra to enjoy the hard work others have put into making a great hangout and exciting place to explore your fantasies.


Lastly… I’ve firmly resolved to only allow myself to be tied up physically.. emotionally… mentally to people who are worth the trust and time involved in tying that knot of friendship.   Also I will not allow myself to let my worth be tallied by someone who can’t seem to count above 1.   *dusts off her hands and eases off her soapbox*

May all the days of this new year put a smile on your face and bring you closer and closer to your happily ever after.

The Resolutely Resolved….

Lavindia J. Fox

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Posted by on January 2, 2013 in Fashion, Uncategorized